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Quotes About Self-assertion

Be your own father, young man
~ Ralph Ellison Invisible Man
I will not hide my tastes or aversions. I will so trust that what is deep is holy, that I will do strongly before the sun and moon whatever only rejoices me, and the heart appoints
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
Youth is insolent; it is it's right - it's necessity; it has got to assert itself, and all assertion in this world of doubts is a defiance, is an insolence.
~ Joseph Conrad
No I don't, no I reject that I reject you, I am not your sister, I am not your twin, I am not you.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
You can't live your life to suit other people. The harder you try, the more restrictions they'll put on you just for the fun of seeing you jump through their hoops.
~ Judith McNaught
Grow up! Lauren felt as if he had slapped her. Infuriated past reason, she struck back at his ego. You're absolutely right! she blazed. That's what I should do.Beginning today I'm going to grow up and start practicing what you preach! I'm going to sleep with any man who appeals to me. But not with you. You're much too old and too cynical for my taste.Now get out of here!
~ Judith McNaught
So what if she ordered an ice cream soda before lunch? Who was going to tell her she couldn't have exactly what she wanted?
~ Judy Blume
Be in favor of the self.
~ Darren Huston
In personal relationships, the false self promises to defend against the intimacy that could lead to engulfment or the pains of abandonment by substituting fantasy relationships with unavailable partners for real relationships. On the job, the false self assures the person that he can avoid the conflicts and anxiety that would come from honest self-assertion with authority figures and peers, competition, and discipline by not working up to his full capacity or ability.
~ James F. Masterson
If you choose to make an nonentity of yourself, do, but don't stick that label on me.
~ Doris Lessing
I am not here to make anyone happy. What I am here for is to claim my life, my mama's death, our losses and our triumphs, to name them for myself.
~ Dorothy Allison
Now I know the things I know, and do the things I do; and if you do not like me so, to hell, my love, with you.
~ Dorothy Parker
Hasting - There are times when it is one's duty to assert oneself.
~ Agatha Christie
Well, people are like that too. They create a false door - to deceive. If they are conscious of weakness, of inefficiency, they make an imposing door of self-assertion, of bluster, of overwhelming authority - and, after a time, they get to believe in it themselves. They think, and everybody thinks, that they are like that. But behind that door, Renisenb, is bare rock... And so when reality comes and touches them with the feather of truth - their true self reasserts itself.
~ Agatha Christie
There are times when it is one's duty to assert oneself.
~ Agatha Christie
And the woman who could win the respect of man was often the woman who could knock him down with her bare fists and sit on him until he yelled for help.
~ Agnes Smedley
When you learn to say yes to yourself, you will be able to say no to others, with love.
~ Alan Cohen
I'm me and nobody else; and whatever people think I am or say I am, that's what I'm not, because they don't know a bloody thing about me.
~ Alan Sillitoe
Million Dollar Consulting Orchestration: if you don't blow your own horn, there is no music.
~ Alan Weiss
I don't take nothin' from no one. I do what I wanna do. And I'm gonna do that until the day I die. And if I can't do that, then I'll just die.
~ Lil Wayne
I was one of those people at one point who was scared to put my foot down and show where the boundaries were. For me, it's really important to stand your ground and know exactly what you are, where you wanna be, and what you're doing, or else people are gonna try you.
~ Kali Uchis
Adapt to yourself, bro. What I wanna say is don't let nobody tell you that you should stay in your lane, bro.
~ Ski Mask the Slump God
I don't just wanna be James Franco's little brother.
~ Dave Franco
I do like things the way that I like them. But I'm trying not to be - I don't wanna be that way. I'm not a control freak; I wanna protect my agency. It's a weird question as a black woman.
~ Kelela