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Quotes About Loss

No likely end would bring them loss or leave them happier than before.
~ Pat Barker
So Agamemnon fears the dead? Well there are plenty of them to fear - young men with all their lives ahead of them do not go down into the darkness reconciled.
~ Pat Barker
Grief is only as deep as the love it's replaced
~ Pat Barker
because grief's only ever as deep as the love it's replaced.
~ Pat Barker
Ik wachtte tot Hekabe zou spreken, maar ze zei niets. Misschien dat ze, oog in oog met dit uitzicht, woorden zo'n gedevalueerd ruilmiddel vond dat ze het als verloren moeite beschouwde ze nog te gebruiken.
~ Pat Barker
Grief doesn't strike bargains.
~ Pat Barker
We howled, all of us, for the loss of our homeland - for the loss of our fathers, husbands, brothers, sons, for everybody we'd ever loved. For all the men carried away on that blood-dark tide.
~ Pat Barker
Many of the girls were crying again; I wondered how many of them had been promised in marriage to young men whose bodies now lay rotting inside the walls of Troy.
~ Pat Barker
From then on the improvement was dramatic, though still the conversations with the dead friend continued, until one morning he awoke crying, and realized he was crying, not only for his own loss but also for his friend's, for the unloved years.
~ Pat Barker
And then I looked at him, at this man who in a previous life I might have liked or even loved—and watched him turn to stone.
~ Pat Barker
There is no teacher more discriminating or transforming than loss.
~ Pat Conroy
Losing prepares you for the heartbreak, setback, and the tragedy that you will encounter in the world more than winning ever can. By licking your wounds you learn how to avoid getting wounded the next time.
~ Pat Conroy
I was born in the age of alas.
~ Pat Conroy
And each year, I lose a little bit more of what made me special as a kid. I don't think as much or question as much. I dare nothing. I put nothing on the line. Even my passions are now frayed and pathetic.
~ Pat Conroy
Once he had drawn first blood, his war against the property of the state lost all its moral resonance.
~ Pat Conroy
Among the worst things about growing old is the loss of those irreplaceable friends who added richness and depth to your life.
~ Pat Conroy
What kind of world is it, Ben thought, that lets its coaches die without his boys around him, buying him Cokes, calling him by his first name, and rubbing his shoulder with Atomic Balm? He died without a face in a room I never saw without my kisses in the stained gauze or without my prayers entering the center of his pain. But worst of all, O God, you let him die, let Coach Murphy die, let Dave die, without my thanks, my thanks, my thanks.
~ Pat Conroy
M]otherlessness caused one of the great thirsts of the human condition.
~ Pat Conroy
Nothing so affects a small town as the loss of its rarest and finest man. Nothing so affects a southern family as the death of the man who lent it balance and fragility in a world askew with corrupt values. His faith had always been a form of splendid madness and his love affair with the world was a hymn of eloquent praise to the lamb who made him.
~ Pat Conroy
and wondered when it was, the exact moment, that I had lost her, that I let her fall too far away from me, that I betrayed the laughing girl and let the world have her. The photograph cut into my heart and I began to read the letter aloud.
~ Pat Conroy
I realized that words were sometimes nothing more than notes you wrote to your deepest self as you fought to articulate the splendor and the magic and the ineluctable sense of loss that you felt in the swift, disturbing hours.
~ Pat Conroy
It was during this terrible night that the three wounded died, and the jeeps froze solid.
~ Pat Frank
There is no loneliness like that of a failed marriage. – Alexander Theroux
~ Pat Gaudette
When a great team loses through complacency, it will constantly search for new and more intricate explanations to explain away defeat. After a while it becomes more innovative in thinking up how to lose than thinnking up how to win.
~ Pat Riley