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Quotes About Reflection

Just as we need pauses between notes for music to sound good, and just as we need punctuation in a sentence for it to be coherent, we should see rest and reflection and passivity—and even sitting on the sofa—as an intrinsic and essential part of life that is needed for the whole to make sense.
~ Matt Haig
He seemed like he would be able to sit in a field near Chernobyl and marvel at the beautiful scenery.
~ Matt Haig
He didn't even seem bothered. To seem grateful in any way for the universe he was in. the universe she had felt so guilty for not allowing to happen.
~ Matt Haig
There are billions of different versions of an older you. There is one version of the present you. Focus on that.
~ Matt Haig
She left the room. I stared at the tweet I was about to post. It wasn't going to add anything to my life. Or anyone else's life. It was just going to lead to more checking of my phone, like Pepys with his pocket watch. I pressed delete, and felt a strange relief as I watched each letter disappear.
~ Matt Haig
It is a wistful smile. The kind of smile no one is capable of before the age of forty. The kind that contains sadness and defiance and amusement all at once.
~ Matt Haig
I click through her photos.
~ Matt Haig
Between life and death there is a library,' she said. 'And within that library, the shelves go on for ever. Every book provides a chance to try another life you could have lived. To see how things would be if you had made other choices . . . Would you have done anything different, if you had the chance to undo your regrets?
~ Matt Haig
They live in your mind, the way they always lived inside
~ Matt Haig
The past resides inside the present, repeating hiccuping, reminding you of all the stuff that no longer is. It bleeds out from road signs and plaques on park benches and songs and surnames and faves and the covers of books.
~ Matt Haig
artist   A human who notices the ridiculousness of being a human and paints, writes, builds, sculpts, films, acts, plays, sings, cries about it.
~ Matt Haig
The thing with mental turmoil is that so many things that make you feel better in the short term make you feel worse in the long term. You distract yourself, when what you really need is to know yourself.
~ Matt Haig
It is easy to mourn the lives we aren't living.
~ Matt Haig
Keep allowing yourself the human privilege of mistakes.
~ Matt Haig
A reminder for the tough times One day this will be over. And we will be grateful for life in ways we never felt possible before.
~ Matt Haig
But it is not the lives we regret not living that are the real problem. It is the regret itself. It's the regret that makes us shrivel and wither and feel like our own and other people's worst enemy. We can't tell if any of those other versions would have been better or worse. Those lives are happening, it is true, but you are happening as well, and that is the happening we have to focus on.
~ Matt Haig
But it is not the lives we regret not living that are the real problem. It is regret itself. It's the regret that makes us shrivel and wither and feel like our own and other peoples worst enemy. We. can't tell if any of those other versions would have been better or worse. Those lives are happening, it is true, but you are happening as well, and that is the happening we have to focus on.
~ Matt Haig
My aunt used to tell me that books are just trees that are having a dream.
~ Matt Haig
Existe la idea de que uno lee para escapar o para encontrarse a sí mismo. En realidad, yo no veo la diferencia. Nos encontramos a nosotros mismos a través del proceso de escapar. No se trata de dónde estamos, sino de adónde queremos ir.
~ Matt Haig
C'è un solo cantuccio dell'universo che uno può esser certo di rendere migliore, e questo è il proprio io.
~ Matt Haig
I am a waste of a carbon footprint, to be honest.
~ Matt Haig
I regret feeling so much guilt.
~ Matt Haig
But it is not the lives we regret not living that are the real problem. It is regret itself. It's the regret that makes us shrivel and wither and feel like our own and other people's worst enemy. We can't tell if any of those other versions would have been better or worse. Those lives are happening, it is true, but you are happening as well, and that is the happening we have to focus on.
~ Matt Haig
Listen,' she said, as she realised she wasn't going to be able to escape the bedroom any time soon. 'When you have worries about things you don't know about, like the future, it's a very good idea to remind yourself of things you do know.
~ Matt Haig