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Quotes About Perspective

MINDS ARE UNIQUE. They go wrong in unique ways. My mind went wrong in a slightly different way to how other minds go wrong. Our experience overlaps with other people's, but it is never exactly the same experience.
~ Matt Haig
To be human was to continually dumb the world down into an understandable story that keeps things simple.
~ Matt Haig
The key to happiness wasn't being yourself, because what did that even mean? Everyone had many selves. No. The key to happiness is finding the lie that suits you best.
~ Matt Haig
Everyone is a comedy. If people are laughing at you, they just don't quite understand the joke that is themselves.
~ Matt Haig
Regrets ignore chronology. They float around.
~ Matt Haig
Human beings, as a rule, simply don't accept things that don't fit their worldview.
~ Matt Haig
She realised that she hadn't tried to end her life because she was miserable, but because she had managed to convince herself that there was no way out of her misery.
~ Matt Haig
We only know what we perceive. Everything we experience is ultimately just our perception of it. "It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see."' 'You know Thoreau?
~ Matt Haig
Every second of every day we are entering a new universe. And we spend so much time wishing our lives were different, comparing ourselves to other people and to other versions of ourselves, when really most lives contain degrees of good and degrees of bad.
~ Matt Haig
History was, is, a one-way street. You have to keep walking forwards, but you don't always need to look ahead. Sometimes you can just look around and be happy right where you are.
~ Matt Haig
To enjoy life, we might have to stop thinking about what we will never be able to read and watch and say and do, and start to think of how to enjoy the world within our boundaries. To live on a human scale. To focus on the few things we can do, rather than the millions of things we can't. To not crave parallel lives. To find a smaller mathematics. To be a proud and singular one. An indivisible prime.
~ Matt Haig
No one is ever completely right about anything. Anywhere.
~ Matt Haig
Tragedy is just comedy that hasn't come to fruition. One day we will laugh at this. We will laugh at everything.
~ Matt Haig
To see something, you have to believe in it. Really believe it. That's the first elf rule. You can't see something you don't believe in. Now try your hardest and see if you can see what you have been looking for.
~ Matt Haig
It is not the length of life that matters. It's the depth. But while burrowing, keep the sun above you.
~ Matt Haig
In your mind, change the name of every day to Saturday. And change the name of work to play.
~ Matt Haig
Beware of the gap. The gap between where you are and where you want to be. Simply thinking of the gap widens it. And you end up falling through.
~ Matt Haig
We only know what we perceive. Everything we experience is ultimately just our perception of it. "It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see.
~ Matt Haig
The problem is not that the world is a mess, but that we expect it to be otherwise.
~ Matt Haig
The world exists in you. Your experience of the world isn't this objective unchangeable thing called 'The World'. No. Your experience of the world is your interaction with it, your interpretation of it. To a certain degree we all make our own worlds. We read it in our own way. But also: we can, to a degree, choose what to read. We have to work out what about the world makes us feel sad or scared or confused or ill or calm or happy.
~ Matt Haig
The bottom of the valley never provides the clearest view.
~ Matt Haig
Never underestimate the big importance of small things,' Mrs Elm said. 'You must always remember that.
~ Matt Haig
All a writer can do is provide a match, and hopefully a dry one. The reader has to strike the flame into being.
~ Matt Haig
I'm having a pretty shit time too, if we're doing the Misery Olympics.
~ Matt Haig