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Quotes About Introspection

How strange it is, to be walking away. Is it possible that I am really going to leave Ray—here? Is it possible that he won't be coming home with me in another day or two, as we'd planned? Such a thought is too profound for me to grasp. It's like fitting a large unwieldy object in a small space. My brain hurts, trying to contain it.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
I will be the clinician of my own pathology.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
As long as you're in motion, your perspective is obscured. Only when you reach the summit and turn to look back, can you be at peace.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
A familiar story, Marya instructs herself—a woman yearning to be completed in a man, by way of a man. As if she hadn't a soul of her own.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
I am infatuated with the private life, and with anonymity; perhaps even invisibility.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
How alone this was going to be.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
you had to have a deep, mysterious soul to want to destroy yourself. The shallower you are, the safer. Colborne
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Lionel turned his thoughts eagerly inward, to discover that inward was perilous, too; his soul was a sort of curved reflective surface that distorts, as in a funhouse mirror, the face of one peering into it. You might be anyone, any face. The face is mere skin. Accident. He seemed at such times to be approaching a profound yet unspeakable truth: that our identities are accidents.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
I lock my door upon myself - a poet had said. I turn my key and there's -- happiness.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
There's a sort of melancholy romance to the experience of being lonesome. I think of reading as a kind of romantic alone activity that you're doing. The image would include being curled up somewhere on a rainy day and you're reading very intensely involved in a world that no one can see because it's inside your head.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Much of the time he lay part-dressed on his bed, sipping gin, and thinking, and thinking, - though what it was, of which he thought, he seemed not to know.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
The mysteries of the female sex! We men can never hope to fathom your depths, but only try not to drown in them.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
He had no idea of my misery. It would have surprised him to think that I was a human creature with a soul.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
All that crap was like living your life with your face pressed up close against a mirror, you couldn't see your own face let alone anything surrounding it.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
we're sick of ourselves.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
First thing is when your on Death Row long enough you don't ask WHO AM I because you have learnt nobody would be there anyway.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
You don't have to understand why anything that has happened to you has happened nor do you even have to understand what it is that has happened. You have only to live with the remains. A
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Sunny wintry days. The idyll of (inner) loneliness. What am I going to do with my life?
~ Joyce Carol Oates
so perhaps nothing was wrong.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
yearning self? Yearning to purify himself at last, after
~ Joyce Carol Oates
Alone, alone! Long she would recall the strangeness of the word, an echo aerated by melancholy vowels—alone. AT
~ Joyce Carol Oates
He said oh honey. how long have you known? Meaning, how long have you been alone, knowing?
~ Joyce Carol Oates
The kind of man, who, every time he steps through a doorway, he's squinting anxious to see if he's welcome. Even when the doorway is his own.
~ Joyce Carol Oates
the mirror above the bureau—a flushed blurred face. I had learned to look quickly away from that face for so often I hated what I saw.
~ Joyce Carol Oates