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Quotes About Masochism

Valía la pena, papá? ¿Era por la ilusión de estar disfrutando del poder? A veces pienso que no, que medrar era lo secundario. Que, en verdad, a ti, a Arala, a Pichardo, a Chirinos, a Álvarez Pina, a Manuel Alfonso, les gustaba ensuciarse. Que Trujillo les sacó del fondo del alma una vocación masoquista, de seres que necesitaban ser escupidos, maltratados, que sintiéndose abyectos se realizaban. El
~ Mario Vargas Llosa
I was thinking the other day that hypochondria's a stepbrother to masochism,' said Hugo.
~ Anthony Powell
To look for a meaning in anything is less the act of a naif than of a masochist.
~ Emil Cioran
Toat? viaÅ£a am fost victima unor nedrept??i. AÅŸ fi putut s? le evit ori s? le neutralizez. Din masochism le-am suportat, dup? cum am suportat calomnii f?r? a încerca s? ripostez, doar din pl?cerea secret? de a fi victim?.
~ Emil Cioran
Love, love, love – all the wretched cant of it, masking egotism, lust, masochism, fantasy under a mythology of sentimental postures, a welter of self-induced miseries and joys, blinding and masking the essential personalities in the frozen gestures of courtship, in the kissing and the dating and the desire, the compliments and the quarrels which vivify its barrenness.
~ Germaine Greer
That night both of us were ashamed. Not only showing our masochism but even worse, not being able to really do it well. We made love again in the bathtub and her halfhearted thrashing became a faded memory.
~ Sarah Schulman
A sadist is a person who is kind to a masochist.
~ Arthur Koestler
To torture a man you have to know his pleasures.
~ Stanis?aw Lem
Chez Masoch, dans sa vie comme dans son Å"uvre, il faut que les amours soient déclenchées par des lettres anonymes ou pseudonymes, et par de petites annonces ; il faut qu'elles soient réglées par des contrats qui les formalisent, qui les verbalisent ; et les choses doivent être dites, promises, annoncées, soigneusement décrites avant d'être accomplies.
~ Gilles Deleuze
To torture a man you have to know his pleasures.
~ Stanislaw Lem
La segunda tentación consistía en la amargura, en el propio abandono masoquista al odio, al sufrimiento y a un pesimismo sin barreras.
~ Sebastian Haffner
The love of violence is an aspect of our humanity. Even the weak wish to be strong primarily so they can wield the whip.
~ Dan Simmons
Nostalgia is masochism and masochism is something masochists love to share.
~ Andrei Codrescu
And so the lion fell in love with the lamb…" he murmured. I looked away, hiding my eyes as I thrilled to the word. "What a stupid lamb," I sighed. "What a sick, masochistic lion.
~ Stephenie Meyer
That an action would be cowardly is not often found by an agent to be a consideration in its favor, but it could be, and in a counterethical way, ministering to a masochism of shame.
~ Bernard Williams
Love, love, love - all the wretched cant of it, masking egotism, lust, masochism, fantasy under a mythology of sentimental postures.
~ Germaine Greer
Whereas rape victims' self blaming has often been misunderstood as merely a self-destructive response to rape, arising out of low self-esteem, feelings of shame, or female masochism, and fueled by society's desire to blame the victim, it can also be seen as an adaptive survival strategy, if the victim has no other way of gaining control.
~ Susan J. Brison
Pregnancy = "the slow, difficult, and delightful apprenticeship in attentiveness, gentleness, forgetting oneself. The ability to succeed in this path without masochism and without annihilating one's affective, intellectual, and professional personality - such would seem to be the stakes to be won through guiltless maternity.
~ Julia Kristeva
Krafft-Ebing was disposed to regard all cases in which a scatalogical sexual attraction existed as due to latent masochism.
~ Havelock Ellis
Only masochists can get along without editing their own memories.
~ Sloan Wilson
A spirit of national masochism prevails, encouraged by an effete corps of impudent snobs who characterize themselves as intellectuals.
~ Spiro T. Agnew
Even the masochists tell everything when tortured. From sheer gratitude.
~ Stanislaw Jerzy Lec
Preoedipal pathology manifests not so much in discrete symptoms or guilty, conflictual indecision as in more pervasive disturbances of psychological function: intense, unregulatable feeling states, extreme fluctuation in images of self and/or other, impaired capacity for steady relatedness—disturbances that characterize pathology like masochism and severe depression.
~ Stephen A. Mitchell
And for that one moment of freedom you have to listen to all that love crap... it drives me nuts sometimes... I want to kick them out immediately... I do now and then. But that doesn't keep them away. They like it, in fact. The less you notice them the more they chase after you. There's something perverse about women... they're all masochists at heart.
~ Henry Miller