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Quotes About Shame

The state of some of our roads is a matter of national embarrassment.
~ Robert Rinder
The Cold War in Africa is one of the darkest, most disgraceful pages in contemporary history, and everybody ought to be ashamed.
~ Ryszard Kapuscinski
What makes the pain we feel from shame and jealousy so cutting is that vanity can give us no assistance in bearing them.
~ Francois de La Rochefoucauld
Public downfalls are more painful and humiliating than private ones.
~ Jane Velez-Mitchell
I think that the shame of being different is very painful for a lot of people.
~ Min Jin Lee
Own your choices. Don't feel ashamed about what you're doing, trust yourself that you're a good parent, don't let anybody else shame you, and, certainly, don't shame yourself.
~ Valerie Jarrett
Looking back, the biggest mistake I made was feeling ashamed of it. Acne is a part of life. You don't need to be embarrassed of it.
~ Cameron Dallas
Shame, as an emotion, has a core meaning, in relating individuals to wider social groups and norms -- real or imagined.
~ Peter N. Stearns
Rather than thinking that genuine religious experience is always comforting, the sense that there is one who can see into the very depths of our being can cause us to turn and run from God. Such repulsion and fear arises from the actual experience of God, for to feel naked and ashamed before God presupposes some kind of relation with God.
~ Peter Rollins
Ignoring our emotions is turning our back on reality; listening to our emotions ushers us into reality. And reality is where we meet God … Emotions are the language of the soul. They are the cry that gives the heart a voice … However, we often turn a deaf ear — through emotional denial, distortion, or disengagement. We strain out anything disturbing in order to gain tenuous control of our inner world. We are frightened and ashamed of what leaks into our consciousness.
~ Peter Scazzero
My family is undoubtedly different from yours. But one thing I've learned after more than twenty years of working closely with families is this: your family, like mine, is also marked by the consequences of the disobedience of our first parents as described in Genesis 3. Shame, secrets, lies, betrayals, relationship breakdowns, disappointments, and unresolved longings for unconditional love lie beneath the veneer of even the most respectable families. Coming
~ Peter Scazzero
In my many years I have come to a conclusion that one useless man is a shame, two is a law firm, and three or more is a congress.
~ Peter Stone
Normally, a guilt-laden individual is isolated from society, but in a group he does not have to endure this fate, being merely a sinner among sinners" (emphasis added). Mitscherlich s own
~ Peter Wyden
headlines such as 'Symbols of Shame', dwelling on the 'flapper' scandal, one of the most grievous and piteous of the many social scandals of this tragic time. Do these thoughtless chits, little more than children, realise that the regimental badges they display so exultantly, are in many cases nothing less than symbols of shame, obtained in exchange for more or less dangerous familiarities
~ Philip Hoare
It was a shameful thing that she had nothing of which to be ashamed.
~ Philip José Farmer
Es un silencio nacido de la vergüenza, porque incluso los inocentes son culpables. Despojado de todo derecho humano, el hombre vuelve a convertirse en un animal.
~ Philip Kerr
nor had I understood til then how the shameless vanity of utter fools can so strongly determine the fate of others
~ Philip Roth
I think: In the end, he remained hidden all his life. In spite of the great departure, the ambitious effort to forge a new existence, he fell back into all the same traps: shame, the impossibility of sharing a love that endures.
~ Philippe Besson
Je reviens sur la piste, je danse encore, j'oublie mon corps, j'oublie la honte.
~ Philippe Besson
Oh, tu sais! La honte, ce n'est pas un sentiment assez fort pour nous empecher de faire quoi que ce soit... Crois moi!
~ Philippe Djian
Fornicating is like parenting: no matter how you do it, you have the guilty sense that somewhere other people are doing it more correctly.
~ Phillip Lopate
We now understand that women and men are not "crazy" or "defective" when, in response to trauma, they develop post-traumatic symptoms, including insomnia, flashbacks, phobias, panic attacks, anxiety, depression, dissociation, a numbed toughness, amnesia, shame, guilt, self-loathing, self-mutilation, and social withdrawal.
~ Phyllis Chesler
To speak without shame about books we haven't read, we would thus do well to free ourselves of the oppressive image of cultural literacy without gaps, as transmitted and imposed by family and school, for we can strive toward this image for a lifetime without ever managing to coincide with it.
~ Pierre Bayard
We are seeing a changed Mumbai, but having showcased Dharavi in 'Slum Dog Millionaire' brought shame and disgrace to our city. Whenever the firangs visit Mumbai, they must visit Dharavi; it has become a sightseeing spot. However, I feel saddened about it.
~ Rohit Shetty