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Quotes About Empathy

How can we not be dooms to each other?
~ Iris Murdoch
This sort of quiet gazing, which was like a feeding of the heart, was something I had not experienced with any other woman.
~ Iris Murdoch
I had the illusion of conversing with a fellow being without a barrier, without a steel door, without a black hood over my head . . . I have never, I think, impressed upon you how almost impossible I find it to communicate with anybody.
~ Iris Murdoch
Of course one never knows about other people's loves, and I would certainly never know about James's.
~ Iris Murdoch
It's not so easy. What isn't? To establish relationships, you can't just elect people, it can't be done by thinking and willing.
~ Iris Murdoch
I know her by intuition as if she were inside my head.
~ Iris Murdoch
He could feel the pain of her heart beating strongly against his own.
~ Iris Murdoch
You don't know what it's like to be me, you don't know what it's like to be all tattered and destroyed inside.
~ Iris Murdoch
Since she had been looking after him she had felt bound to him by a strange silent love.
~ Iris Murdoch
Your best friends are in trouble and you say 'of course' and forget them instantly.
~ Iris Murdoch
We naturally take in the catastrophes of our friends a pleasure which genuinely does not preclude friendship. This is partly but not entirely because we enjoy being empowered as helpers. The unexpected or inappropriate catastrophe is especially piquant.
~ Iris Murdoch
I have battered destructively and in vain upon the mystery of someone else's life and must cease at last.
~ Iris Murdoch
The bereaved cannot communicate with the unbereaved.
~ Iris Murdoch
But suicides are mysterious, and one must respect their mystery.
~ Iris Murdoch
Don't be hurt by me. I can't help being hurt —
~ Iris Murdoch
Ludens was continually aware of his father's distress.
~ Iris Murdoch
When dealing with a married couple one can never be neutral. The hot magnetic power of each one's view of the other makes the spectator sway.
~ Iris Murdoch
You're always wanting to be forgiven. What do you want to be forgiven for?
~ Iris Murdoch
Our relationship in fact was never idle. It was obvious that we constantly thought about each other.
~ Iris Murdoch
A letter is a barrier, a reprieve, a charm against the world, an almost infallible method of acting at a distance.
~ Iris Murdoch
Outsiders who see rules and not the love that runs through them are often too ready to label other people as 'prisoners'.
~ Iris Murdoch
Ducane knew that Willy had looked forward to this visit. He knew too that the visit was rendering Willy unspeakably miserable.
~ Iris Murdoch
A human being hardly ever thinks about other people.
~ Iris Murdoch
Send anger and hate away. Love them and let them walk on you.
~ Iris Murdoch