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Quotes About Empathy

The most important innovation in medicine to come in the next 10 years: the power of the human hand.
~ Abraham Verghese
I'd become aware of human complexity--that's a kinder word than "deceit.
~ Abraham Verghese
How we treat the least of our brethren,... that's the measure of this country.
~ Abraham Verghese
He had a theory that bedroom Amharic and bedside Amharic were really the same thing: Please lie down. Take off your shirt. Open your mouth. Take a deep breath... The language of love was the same as the language of medicine.
~ Abraham Verghese
To be listened to is healing
~ Abraham Verghese
How we treat the least of our brethren, how we treat the peasant suffering with volvulus, that's the measure of this country. Not our fighter planes or tanks
~ Abraham Verghese
You had to exert yourself to see this world. But if you did, if you had that kind of curiosity, if you had an innate interest in the welfare of your fellow human beings, and if you went through that door, a strange thing happened: you left your petty troubles on the threshold. It could be addictive
~ Abraham Verghese
I realized if something happens to him, it happens to me, too. If I love myself, I love him, for we are one. That makes it a risk worth taking for me - it wouldn't be for anyone else, unless they loved him.
~ Abraham Verghese
I don't think you can be a physician and not see yourself reflected in your patient's illness. How would I deal with the kind of news I'd given Mr. Walters?
~ Abraham Verghese
I realized that I could have done more for him if I had been in his house. I would have pushed morphine-- large doses. Morphine disconnects the head from the body, makes the isthmus of a neck vanish and diminishes the awareness of suffering. It is like a magic trick: the head on the pillow, at peace, while the chest toils away.
~ Abraham Verghese
I'm so sorry,' Stone said. I don't know whether he was speaking to me, or Ghosh, or the universe. It wasn't enough, but it was about time.
~ Abraham Verghese
You needed a guide. You had to know what to look for, but also how to look. You had to exert yourself to see this world. But if you did, if you had that kind of curiosity, if you had an innate interest in the welfare of your fellow human beings, and if you went through that door, a strange thing happened: you left your petty troubles on the threshold. It could be addictive.
~ Abraham Verghese
Few doctors will admit this, certainly not young ones, but subconsciously, in entering the profession, we must believe that ministering to others will heal our woundedness. And it can. But it can also deepen the wound.
~ Abraham Verghese
Philipose quotes Gandhi: "There are people in the world so hungry, that God cannot appear to them except in the form of food.
~ Abraham Verghese
Please lie down. Take off your shirt. Open your mouth. Take a deep breath Ã¢â'¬Â¦ The language of love was the same as the language of medicine
~ Abraham Verghese
As many people as there are to hold you back, there are angels whose humanity makes up for all the others.
~ Abraham Verghese
God will judge us, Mr. Harris, by"—her voice broke as she thought of Sister Mary Joseph Praise—"by what we did to relieve the suffering of our fellow human beings. I don't think God cares what doctrine we embrace.
~ Abraham Verghese
How we treat the least of our brethren, how we treat the peasant suffering with volvulus, that's the measure of this country. Not our fighter planes or tanks, or how big the Emperor's palace happens to be.
~ Abraham Verghese
Thou shall not operate on the day of a patient's death.
~ Abraham Verghese
When you look around Addis and see children barefoot and shivering in the rain, when you see the lepers begging for their next morsel, does any of that Monophysitic nonsense matter the least bit?" Matron
~ Abraham Verghese
I don't think you can be a physician and not see yourself reflected in your patient's illness.
~ Abraham Verghese
Abraham Verghese
~ kitchen opened.
He invited me to a world that wasn't secret, but it was well hidden. You needed a guide. You had to know what to look for, but also how to look. You had to exert yourself to see this world. But if you did, if you had that kind of curiosity, if you had an innate interest in the welfare of your fellow human beings, and if you went through that door, a strange thing happened: you left your petty troubles on the threshold. It could be addictive.
~ Abraham Verghese
His motivation was to rattle the good people of Greenwich mean time, have them raise their heads from their tea and scones, and say, Oh, yes. Africa. For a fleeting moment they'd have the same awareness of us that we had of them.
~ Abraham Verghese