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Quotes About Illusion

Others live for the lie of love; Echo lives for her lovely lies, loves for their livening.
~ John Barth
innocence is ignorance; ignorance is illusion; and Commencement, while it certainly is a metaphor, is no illusion. Commencement's for the disillusioned, not for the innocent.
~ John Barth
I hope I'm a fiction without real hope.
~ John Barth
Brez pravega upanja upam, da sem fikcija.
~ John Barth
Drolls & dreamers that we are, we fancy that we can undo what we fancy we have done.
~ John Barth
You mustn't be taken in by the moonlight and magnolias. There's more to Savannah than that. Things can get very murky.
~ John Berendt
Most are deceived by and drawn to behavior and things that seem right, good, and wise but are contrary to His wisdom.
~ John Bevere
I was deluding myself, for love was one thing but desire was something else entirely.
~ John Boyne
Just because someone looks sky at night, doesn`t mean it is astronaut.
~ John Boyne
The fantasy bond (really bondage) is the illusion that someone is there for them, someone who loves and protects them. The fantasy bond is like a mirage in the desert. Once set up, the denying fantasy bond functions automatically and unconsciously. Years later, when reality is no longer life-threatening, the fantasy bond remains. This explains why abandoned (abused) children are described as having a compulsion to protect their parents.
~ John Bradshaw
Actually getting rid of the voices is extremely difficult because of the original rupturing of the interpersonal bridge and the resulting fantasy bond. As children are abandoned, and the more severely they are abandoned (neglected, abused, enmeshed), the more they create the illusion of connection with the parent. The illusion is what Robert Firestone calls the Fantasy Bond
~ John Bradshaw
The fantasy bond is an illusion of connectedness that the child creates in relation to the primary caregiver, who is shaming her. Paradoxically, the more a child is violated, the more she creates the fantasy bond. Bonding to abuse is one of the most perplexing aspects of shame inducement.
~ John Bradshaw
Actually getting rid of the voices is extremely difficult because of the original rupturing of the interpersonal bridge and the resulting fantasy bond. As children are abandoned, and the more severely they are abandoned (neglected, abused, enmeshed), the more they create the illusion of connection with the parent. The illusion is what Robert Firestone calls the "fantasy bond.
~ John Bradshaw
We're aware of the scale of the planet, so we don't accept that our own circumscribed horizons constitute reality. Much more real is what's relayed to us by the TV.
~ John Brunner
We are all, even the best of us, egoists and self-deceivers, and without a little comfortable make-believe to clothe us we should freeze in the outer winds.
~ John Buchan
We are all, even the best of us, egotists and self-deceivers, and without a little comfortable make-believe to clothe us we should freeze in the outer winds.
~ John Buchan
and the name of that Town is Vanity; and at the Town there is a Fair kept, called Vanity Fair: it is kept all the year long; it beareth the name of Vanity Fair, because the Town where 'tis kept is lighter than Vanity; and also because all that is there sold, or that cometh thither, is Vanity. As is the saying of the wise, All that cometh is Vanity. Section
~ John Bunyan
The greatest obstacle to discovery is not ignorance. It is the illusion of knowledge." Many
~ John C. Maxwell
The greatest problem with communication is the illusion that it has been accomplished.
~ John C. Maxwell
As playwright George Bernard Shaw observed, "The greatest problem with communication is the illusion that it has been accomplished.
~ John C. Maxwell
George Bernard Shaw observó: "El mayor problema con la comunicación es la ilusión de que se llevó a cabo".
~ John C. Maxwell
Expecting the world to treat you fairly just because you're a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to charge you because you're a vegetarian
~ John C. Maxwell
Do you realize what that means? Do you know what that feels like? To live for fifteen years on promises and expectations and loans and credits in hotels that aren't fit to live in, never for a single day to be out of debt, and yet to pretend, to feel that every year, every winter, every job, every meeting is going to be the one. To live like this for fifteen years and then to realize that it's never going to end. Do you know what that feels like?
~ John Cheever
The people in the Farquarsons' living room seemed united in their tacit claim that there had been no past, no war—that there was no danger or trouble in the world.
~ John Cheever