Quotes About Wished-for

So there are three consecutive frustrations: the frustration of need, the frustration of fantasized satisfaction not working, and the frustration of satisfaction in the real world being at odds with the wished-for, fantasized satisfaction. Three frustrations, three disturbances, and two disillusionments. It is, what has been called in a different context, a cumulative trauma; the cumulative trauma of desire. And this is when it works.

We live in a world where amnesia is the most wished-for state. When did history become a bad word?

My view of "attraction," then, involves a high degree of overlap of their experience with a real person and the wished-for image in their heads.