Quotes from Sherry Argov

Whenever a woman requires too many things from a man, he'll resent it. Let him give what he wants to give freely; then observe who he is.

if the sex was too easy to get, it was not that great.

If you allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you'll create a void. Then to replace what you give up, you'll start to expect and need more from your partner.

It isn't about looks; gorgeous women get dumped every day.

Instead of working so hard to please him, work harder to please yourself…because ultimately, this is what will truly please him.

Men can shift gears from romantic to practical - and so can the bitch.

If a relationship is on-and-off within the first year, that's an immediate sign you are wasting your time.

There is no way to hold your own in a relationship and simultaneously accept rude behavior.

If he still isn't giving you what you want, the question to ask yourself is whether you really want him.

If you want to control your emotions, you have to control your thoughts.

Expressing your feelings constantly is like pleading. It comes across as needy rather than dignified.

Forcing him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he'll pay even less attention to your feelings.

When you meet someone who is truly great, he makes you believe you can be great, too.

When a woman is secure with herself, she isn't afraid to define herself and defy public opinion. She has her own look. Her own style. Her own charisma. Her own brand of charm. A man wants something he doesn't see every day. Not in terms of a redhead versus a blonde. He wants the rare woman who can think for herself.

For a woman the objective is often a committed relationship also known as the destination. For a men roadtrip on the way to the destination is often the more fun.

she lets him see how afraid she is to be without him and he soon comes to feel as though he has a 100 percent hold on her. This is often the point when women begin to complain: "He doesn't make enough time for me. He isn't as romantic as he used to be.

When a nice girl overcompensates, her behavior says, "What I have to offer isn't enough, and who I am isn't enough.

The nice girl loses an important protective mechanism when she assumes that life is fair, or that Prince Charming will always protect her. The smart fox is not governed by wishful thinking or the hope of a fantasy outcome, like Cinderella. Despite appearances, she trusts herself to watch her OWN back instead of giving a man the responsibility of doing it for her.

Men are selfish and don't think about anything else but them self." pg. 45

One man's "ugly" is another man's "beautiful.

If you appear weak, people take advantage of you.

She doesn't realize that she becomes so involved in him that she loses herself, and in the process, she risks losing him as well.

It's that a bit of irreverence is necessary to have any self-esteem at all. Not irreverence for people, but rather, for what other people think.

Keeping it short and to the point is essential, otherwise he won't hear a single word.