Quotes from Sherry Argov

This is a touch game. There are times when you've got to play hurt when you've got to block out the pain.

One of the things women have to get out of their mindset is the notion of what a bitch is. A bitch is nice. She's sweet as a Georgia peach. She smiles and she is feminine. She just doesn't make decisions based on the fear of losing a man.

Regardless of how pretty a woman is, looks alone will not sustain his respect. Appearance may pull him in, but it is your independence that will keep him turned on.

Always give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard.

If you chase him in a black nightie, first he'll have sex with you . . . and then he'll run.

More than anything else, he watches to see if you'll be too emotionally dependent on him.

The best advice I ever heard is, don't take anyone else's advice." There's power in this because it puts you in the conductor's seat, right at "the controls" in your life. It doesn't mean you should stop seeking information or outside input, it just means that you're the one driving. You choose your own destination.

Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turnd on by a woman who cares about her own pleasures as well.

Truly powerful people don't explain why they want respect. They simply don't engage someone who doesn't give it to them.

If a man has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he'll not only perceive her as more beautiful, he'll also take time to appreciate who she is.

The person who is least dependent on the outcome of the relationship will automatically draw the other person in.

Men don't respond to words. They respond to no contact.

Sex appeal is 50% what you've got, and 50% what people think you've got." —SOPHIA LOREN

And remember, it's always her fault. That's your story and you're sticking to it.

Many women are so gripped with fear over the loss of a man that they think of him constantly.

you can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he does't respect your opinion,he won't respect you.

A girlfriend went on a couple of dates with a guy who criticized the color of her nail polish. She said, "The suggestion department is closed for the evening, but fax your idea tomorrow and we'll file it right over there in the suggestion box." (Then she pointed to the kitchen trash.)

You always want what you cant have

The woman who is too nice senses that he "needs her" and she runs to his aid like a Red Cross rescue missionary. And she gives—blindly.

If she has six good points and you have one semigood little point, place all of the emphasis on your one semigood little point.

If she is clearly right, find fault with her that has nothing to do with the incident, and use that.

She knows what she wants but won't compromise herself to get it. But she's feminine, like "Steel Magnolia" -- flowery on the outside, steel on the inside. She uses this very femininity to her own advantage. It isn't that she takes undue advantage of men, because she plays fair. She has one thing the nice girl doesn't: a presence of mind because she isn't swept away by a romantic fantasy. This presence of mind enables her to wield her power when it is necessary.

Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he's with a woman, he wants it to feel like fun.

If you are nice, but you give of yourself with strings attached, the demand for reciprocity will send him several steps backward.