Quotes About Attachment

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Na druhou stranu jsem v sobÄ› nechtÄ›la nebo nedokázala nechat zakoÃ…â"¢enit nikoho. Za ?as pÃ…â"¢ijdu i o možnost mít dÄ›ti. Žádná lidská bytost se ode mÄ› neodtrhne s dÄ›sem, s nímž jsem se já odtrhla od svojí mámy jen proto, že se mi nikdy nepodaÃ…â"¢ilo se k ní pÃ…â"¢imknout definitivnÄ›.

SpíÅ¡ mi to pÃ…â"¢ipadalo jako jeden z mnoha zp?sob?, jak pÃ…â"¢esvÄ›d?it sami sebe, že v životÄ› vždycky máme nÄ›jakou tenkou vÄ›tev, které se chytíme, a jak na ní visíme, zvykáme si na nevyhnutelnost toho, že se zÃ…â"¢ítíme.

How you like saying you love him." "Why shouldn't I like it?" "You're right, why? I was wrong: it's pointless to open the eyes of someone in love.

É tão fácil — pensei — morrer precisamente na vida das pessoas sem as quais não podemos viver?

How much of him would I be forced to love forever, without even realizing it, simply by virtue of the fact that I loved them? What a complex foamy mixture a couple is. Even if the relationship shatters and ends, it continues to act in secret pathways, it doesn't die, it doesn't want to die.

There is no suffering if you don't want anything.

Spiderwebs attached themselves, like long trails of agglutinative suffixes, onto our arms and faces.

You're always sad when you leave Rome," he said at some point. "You're always depressed until you go back.

Infatuation is measured in pleasure. Love is measured in pain. Behold the value of pain!

There is always an element of unreality, perhaps even of slight absurdity, about someone you love.

It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a real relationship with them.

Narcissists are bound to feel that their own death is the end of everything that really matters.

Psycho-analysts usually refer to this process as introjecting a good object; meaning by this that the attachment figure has become part of the individual's inner world, and therefore someone on whom he can rely even though the person concerned is not actually present.

But attachment theory, in my view, does less than justice to the importance of work, to the emotional significance of what goes on in the mind of the individual when he is alone, and, more especially, to the central place occupied by the imagination in those who are capable of creative achievement. Intimate attachments are a hub around which a person's life revolves, not necessarily the hub.

Bowlby's statement that intimate attachments are the hub around which a person's life revolves, and Marris's assertion that specific relationships embody most crucially the meaning of a person's life, leave out of account not only interests, which may be crucially important, but also the need which many people feel for some scheme, religion, philosophy, or ideology which makes sense of life.

The capacity to form attachments on equal terms is considered evidence of emotional maturity. It is the absence of this capacity which is pathological. Whether there may be other criteria of emotional maturity, like the capacity to be alone, is seldom taken into account.

A man's love, till it has been chastened and fastened by the feeling of duty which marriage brings with it, is instigated mainly by the difficulty of pursuit.

Love does not cause suffering: what causes it is the sense of ownership, which is love's opposite

I had an ex like that. Wasn't happy unless my head was full of her words.

There is something beautiful, touching and poetic when one person loves more than the other, and the other is indifferent.

Gli emblemi potevano essere facilmente rimossi, ma la memoria e l'affetto erano più difficili da cancellare.

Part of her - unreasonable Anna- still loved him. Maybe she would never stop loving him.

A long time ago, I read in a book that a woman's homeland is wherever she fell in love.