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Quotes About Emotions

She has embarrassingly inquired, of her children, whether there's a woman in his life, and has rejoiced at hearing no. Not because she doesn't want him to be happy, not because she has any right or even much inclination to be jealous anymore, but because it means there's some shadow of a chance that he still thinks, as she does more than ever, that they were not just the worst thing that ever happened to each other, they were also the best thing.
~ Jonathan Franzen
She knew that you could love somebody more than anything and still not love the person all that much, if you were busy with other things.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Our visual cortexes are wired to quickly recognize faces and then quickly subtract massive amounts of detail from them, zeroing in on their essential message: Is this person happy? Angry? Fearful? Individual faces may vary greatly, but a smirk on one is a lot like a smirk on another. Smirks are conceptual, not pictorial. Our brains are like cartoonists - and cartoonists are like our brains, simplifying and exaggerating, subordinating facial detail to abstract comic concepts.
~ Jonathan Franzen
I'm telling you that I will be all right without you. Everything we have is temporary, the joy, the suffering, everything. I had the joy of experiencing your goodness for a very long time. It was enough. I have no right to ask for more.
~ Jonathan Franzen
It's like there are these words, they're out there in the world, and you start wondering what it would be like to say them. Words have their own power—they create the feeling, just by the fact of your saying them.
~ Jonathan Franzen
As soon as she hit the Send button, she had a spasm of remorse; her interval between action and remorse was diminishing so rapidly that soon she might be all remorse, unable to act at all; which might not be such a bad thing.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Her heart was full and her senses were sharp, but her head felt liable to burst in the vacuum of her solitude.
~ Jonathan Franzen
He cursed a little, not so much because he cared about the photographs as because he wanted to preserve his good spirits, his serotonin-rich mood, and to do this he needed a modicum of cooperation from the world of objects.
~ Jonathan Franzen
He knows how love blinds people to the truth about the one they are in love with.
~ Jonathan Franzen
There seemed to be almost nothing left of Lalitha; she was breaking up on him the way dead songbirds did in the wild-they were impossibly light to begin with, and as soon as their little hearts stopped beating they were barely more than bits of fluff and hollow bone, easily scatterd in the wind-but this only made him more determined to hold onto what little of her he still had.
~ Jonathan Franzen
The rage inside him was titanic. How to keep from exploding? What a relief exploding was.
~ Jonathan Franzen
She, for her part, was accustomed to my leavings and didn't complain too much. But she still felt about me what she'd always felt, which was what I wouldn't really feel about her until after she was gone. I hate it when Daylight Savings Time starts while you're here, she told me while we were driving to the airport, because it means I have an hour less with you.
~ Jonathan Franzen
because, no matter how he'd come to hate her, he was also, even now, trying to impress her and win her praise, bringing her his Bertrand Russell papers as mother-flattering evidence of his outsize intellect, constructing his rhyme schemes.
~ Jonathan Franzen
He goes from one sensation to another — but no satisfaction.
~ Jonathan Franzen
our culture attaches too much importance to feelings, he says it's out of control, it's not computers that are making everything virtual, it's mental health. Everyone's trying to correct their thoughts and improve their feelings and work on their relationships and parenting skills instead of just getting married and raising children like they used to
~ Jonathan Franzen
he felt unbearably sorry for himself. It was strange that self-pity wasn't on the list of deadly sins; none was deadlier.
~ Jonathan Franzen
She'd never really known her father. Probably nobody had. With his shyness and his formality and his tyrannical rages he protected his interior so ferociously that if you loved him, as she did, you learned that you could do him no greater kindness than to respect his privacy.
~ Jonathan Franzen
People who like to be in control of things can have a hard time with intimacy. Intimacy is anarchic and mutual and definitionally incompatible with control. You seek to control things because you are afraid.
~ Jonathan Franzen
His resentment of his wife, Caroline, was moderate and well contained.
~ Jonathan Franzen
It was love that worked miracles; no force on earth was more powerful.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Patty começou a chorar por motivos que se sentia triste demais para examinar.
~ Jonathan Franzen
But strict limits to intimacy are the straight man's burden.
~ Jonathan Franzen
A fact of my life was that I had a morbid fear of reproach, especially from women.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Ma ora si rendeva conto che quello, come tradimento, era così piccolo che faceva ridere. Così piccolo che faceva piangere.
~ Jonathan Franzen