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Quotes About Emotions

Enid and Sylvia resumed relations stiffly, their emotional muscles pulled and aching from last night's overuse.
~ Jonathan Franzen
His expression was like a perspectival regression toward a vanishing point of misery.
~ Jonathan Franzen
A drawback of email was that you could only delete it once: couldn't crumple it up, fling it to the floor, stomp on it, rip it to shreds, and burn it. Was there anything crueler, from the person who'd rejected you, than compassionate forbearance?
~ Jonathan Franzen
Un inconvenient del correu electrònic és que només el pots esborrar una vegada: no pots arrugar-lo, rebotre'l contra el terra, trepitjar-lo, fer-ne mil bocins i cremar-lo. Hi podia haver alguna cosa més cruel, per part d'algú que t'acabava de rebutjar, que una paciència compassiva?
~ Jonathan Franzen
She was a little bit in love with Tom, too, because she could afford to be, because she wasn't physically attracted to him - he was both older and 'safe'.
~ Jonathan Franzen
She felt as if, while working and sleeping and working and sleeping, she'd aged so rapidly that she'd passed Emile and caught up with her parents.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Whatever chemistry she and Jason had had was still there, if only in the form of regret about never really having acted on it.
~ Jonathan Franzen
He thought of calling her again, if only to resupply himself with shame, but the purity of the hurt of losing her was of a piece with the season's dark afternoons and long nights.
~ Jonathan Franzen
What would it be like to live with a person capable of joy?
~ Jonathan Franzen
What's it do?" she said. "Absolutely nothing," Hibbard replied, "if you are in perfect mental health. However, let's face it, who is?
~ Jonathan Franzen
Happy people didn't tell lies.
~ Jonathan Franzen
that people were cruel to what they were afraid of loving.
~ Jonathan Franzen
But what do we expect will become of students, successfully cocooned from uncomfortable feelings, once they leave the sanctuary of academe for the boorish badlands of real life?
~ Jonathan Franzen
How many times had he read the word joy without having experienced what it meant?
~ Jonathan Franzen
It was better to be angry than to be hurt; maybe even better than being loved and held by him, because maybe anger was what she'd been feeling toward him all along, anger disguised as wanting.
~ Jonathan Franzen
El dolor se presenta como producto e indicador naturales de estar vivo en un mundo que opone resistencia. Pasar por la vida indoloramente es no haber vivido.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Cuando te quedas en tu habitación y te encolerizas o adoptas una actitud de desdén o te encoges de hombros, como hice muchos años, el mundo y sus problemas te intimidan de manera extraordinaria. Pero cuando sales y estableces una relación real con personas reales, o incluso con animales reales, existe el peligro muy real de acabar queriendo a alguno de ellos.
~ Jonathan Franzen
And yet: guilt must be the most monstrous of human quantities, because what I did to relieve my guilt then—stay in the marriage—was precisely the thing I felt guiltiest about later, when the marriage was over.
~ Jonathan Franzen
They rode an elevator in silence. Too-precipitous intimacy had left in its wake a kind of dirty awkwardness.
~ Jonathan Franzen
Joey aveva sorriso con furia per impedirsi di piangere. La sua ferita gli sembrava strutturale, come se lui e suo padre avessero scelto le proprie idee politiche al solo scopo di odiarsi, e l'unico modo per uscirne fosse il distacco.
~ Jonathan Franzen
The social intuitionist model offers an explanation of why moral and political arguments are so frustrating: because moral reasons are the tail wagged by the intuitive dog. A dog's tail wags to communicate. You can't make a dog happy by forcibly wagging its tail. And you can't change people's minds by utterly refuting their arguments.
~ Jonathan Haidt
Jealousy, hatred, greed, and the like lead to suffering and dissatisfaction because they're out of step with reality. They paint a misleading picture of the world.
~ Jonathan Landaw
There are certain grudges that are every bit as irrational as they are uplifting. A person must protect them at all costs, especially in old age.
~ Jonathan Lee
I am relaxed. It's just buried under layers of incredulity and panic. But underneath those I'm very relaxed.
~ Jonathan Lethem