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Quotes About Fulfillment

We could not be fulfilled if we weren't inauthentic some of the time—inauthentic, that is, in relation to such things as our passing desires to throttle our children, poison our spouse, or end our marriage over a dispute about changing a lightbulb.
~ Alain de Botton
After 40 (old age for most of man's history), one should strive to be more or less packed and ready to go were the end call to come.
~ Alain de Botton
Every adult life could be said to be defined by two great love stories. The first—the story of our quest for sexual love—is well known and well charted, its vagaries form the staple of music and literature, it is socially accepted and celebrated. The second—the story of our quest for love from the world—is a more secret and shameful tale.
~ Alain de Botton
What we find beautiful and what we see as attractive are indicators of what we crave in order to become properly 'whole'.
~ Alain de Botton
We are richer than we think, each one of us.
~ Alain de Botton
Objects mimic in a material dimension what we require in a psychological one. We need to rearrange our minds but are lured towards new shelves. We buy a cashmere cardigan as a substitute for the counsel of friends. We
~ Alain de Botton
Beauty is the promise of happiness.
~ Alain de Botton
Why? Because no one is able to produce a great work of art without experience, nor achieve a worldly position immediately, nor be a great lover at the first attempt; and in the interval between initial failure and subsequent success, in the gap between who we wish one day to be and who we are at present, must come pain, anxiety, envy and humiliation. We suffer because we cannot spontaneously master the ingredients of fulfilment. Nietzsche
~ Alain de Botton
Let's make sure our ideas of success are our own, that we are truly the authors of our own ambitions.
~ Alain de Botton
The possibility of an alternative love story is a reminder that the life we are leading is only one of a myriad of possible lives and it is the impossibility of leading them all that plunges us into sadness.
~ Alain de Botton
F?r? dragoste, ne pierdem capacitatea de a avea o identitate real?; în dragoste exist? o constant? confirmare a sinelui
~ Alain de Botton
Hoe machtig onze technologie en hoe complex onze ondernemingen ook mogen zijn, het opmerkelijkste kenmerk van onze moderne arbeid is uiteindelijk misschien wel iets wat in onszelf zit, een aspect van onze mentaliteit: de wijdverbreide overtuiging dat ons werk ons gelukkig moet maken.
~ Alain de Botton
În aceast? lume, respectul de sine depinde integral de ceea ce ne mân? de la spate s? fm sau s? facem.
~ Alain de Botton
The clue to dieting: ensuring (not always easy) one has more exciting things to do than eat.
~ Alain de Botton
Doyurulmay? bekleyen gereksinimler kimi zaman halüsinasyonlar doÄŸurur: Susuzluk suyu hayal eder, aÅŸka duyulan gereksinim de ideal bir erkek ya da kad?n?.
~ Alain de Botton
a lack of love: between a man and a woman is the announcement that what they might produce would only be a badly organized, unhappy being, wanting in harmony in itself.
~ Alain de Botton
We could not be fulfilled if we weren't inauthentic some of the time, perhaps even a lot of it – inauthentic, that is, in relation to such things as our passing desires to throttle our children, poison our spouse or end our marriage over a dispute about changing a light bulb.
~ Alain de Botton
The start of work means the end to freedom, but also to doubt, intensity and wayward desires.
~ Alain de Botton
If prostitutes ... attract us so little, it is not because they are less beautiful than other women, but because they are ready and waiting; because they already offer us precisely what we seek to attain.
~ Alain de Botton
But the museum is only a prelude to a life well lived.
~ Alain de Botton
We may be happy with little when we have come to expect little. And we may be miserable with much when we have been taught to expect everything.
~ Alain de Botton
On the one hand, we may try to achieve more; and on the other, we may reduce the number of things we want to achieve.
~ Alain de Botton
even if the whole of the man-made world could, through relentless effort and sacrifice, be modelled to rival St Mark's Square, even if we could spend the rest of our lives in the Villa Rotonda or the Glass House, we would still often be in a bad mood. 7.
~ Alain de Botton
When does a job feel meaningful? Whenever it allows us to generate delight or reduce suffering in others.
~ Alain de Botton