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Quotes About Fulfillment

Those among us who chose to stay single should not be thought un-Romantic. Indeed, we may be among the very most Romantic of all, which is precisely why we find the possibilities open to us especially unappetising. It's in the end the fervent Romantics who should be especially careful of ending up in mediocre relationships: relationships best suit the kind of people who don't expect too much from them.
~ Alain de Botton
Ebeveynlerin sevgisi ve anlay??? yeterli olsa, insan olduÄŸu yerde sayar ve zamanla soyu tükenirdi. Türün hayatta kalmas?, çocuklar?n nihayetinde bundan b?kmas?na dayan?r. Daha tatmin edici sevgi ve heyecan kaynaklar? bulma umuduyla dünyaya at?lmalar?na baÄŸl?d?r.
~ Alain de Botton
Those who love and those who are happy are not the same.
~ Alain de Botton
Life seems to be a process of replacing one anxiety with another and substituting one desire for another—which is not to say that we should never strive to overcome any of our anxieties or fulfil any of our desires, but rather to suggest that we should perhaps build into our strivings an awareness of the way our goals promise us a respite and a resolution that they cannot, by definition, deliver.
~ Alain de Botton
When does a job feel meaningful? When we can, at the end of the day, feel as if our work has in some way, however modestly, helped either to reduce the misery or to increase the contentment of others.
~ Alain de Botton
Though we are often taught to think of ourselves as inherently selfish, the longing to act meaningfully in our work seems just as stubborn a part of our make-up as our appetite for status or money. It is because we are meaning-focused animals..
~ Alain de Botton
Because in resolving our need to love, we do not always succeed in resolving our need to long.
~ Alain de Botton
There are two ways to make people richer, reasoned Rousseau: to give them more money or to restrain their desires.
~ Alain de Botton
How different everything is for the craftsman who transforms a part of the world with his own hands, who can see his work as emanating from his being and can step back at the end of a day or lifetime and point to an object — whether a square of canvas, a chair or a clay jug — and see it as a stable repository of his skills and an accurate record of his years..
~ Alain de Botton
It is easy to get upset about the deteriorating state of one's body, but there are other ways to excel and impress than via one's legs.
~ Alain de Botton
Our sense of what is valuable will hence be radically distorted if we must perpetually condemn as tedious everything we lack, simply because we lack it.
~ Alain de Botton
Love could not induce us to take on the burden of propagating the species without promising us the greatest happiness we could imagine.
~ Alain de Botton
we cannot help but ask what comes of all of this Ã¢â'¬Â¦ there is nothing to show but the satisfaction of hunger and sexual passion, and Ã¢â'¬Â¦ a little momentary gratification Ã¢â'¬Â¦ now and then, between Ã¢â'¬Â¦ endless needs and exertions.
~ Alain de Botton
He once fantasized that his worries would be stilled if he lived elsewhere, if he attained a few professional goals, if he had a family. But nothing has ever made a difference. He is, he can see, anxious to the core, in his most basic make-up: a frightened, ill-adjusted creature.
~ Alain de Botton
In any case, unless we learn how to appreciate what we have, there is no point striving for more.
~ Alain de Botton
Life is rather like a tin of sardines - we're all of us looking for the key.
~ Alan Bennett
One recipe for happiness is to have no sense of entitlement
~ Alan Bennett
Had she been asked if reading had enriched her life she would have had to say yes, undoubtedly, though adding with equal certainty that it had at the same time drained her life of all purpose.
~ Alan Bennett
She found that after she had written something down, she was happy. Happy as if she had been reading. And it came to her again that did not want to simply be a reader. A reader was next door to being a spectator where as when she was writing she was doing. And doing was her duty.
~ Alan Bennett
I liked the fact that the happiest night of my life was followed by a day like any other. It seemed to say that such happiness, so long denied, was now a part of my everyday life.
~ Alan Brennert
You were supposed to be free [...] That was all I had to give you.
~ Alan Brennert
The first step to boosting your income is to identify where your passion lives and to be true to it.
~ Alan Cohen
Your greatest contribution to helping other people live their destiny is for you to live your own.
~ Alan Cohen
ACIM states that you will be appalled when you realize what you are truly here for (T-17.V.5:6). You thought you were here to get stuff, prove yourself, and find people to love you. Instead you are here get peace, be yourself, and find people to love. You thought you were here to fix the world. Instead you are here to appreciate what is before you and see the world through new eyes.
~ Alan Cohen