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Quotes About Negotiation

In every negotiation in which you're involved—in every negotiation in which I'm involved—in fact, in every negotiation in the world (from a diplomatic geopolitical negotiation to the purchase of a home)—three crucial elements are always present:
~ Herb Cohen
Information. The other side seems to know more about you and your needs than you know about them and their needs.
~ Herb Cohen
In short, you have more power if you believe you have power and view your life's encounters as negotiations.
~ Herb Cohen
His response to any question is a counter-question.
~ Herb Cohen
What is negotiation? It is the use of information and power to affect behavior within a "web of tension." If you think about this broad definition, you'll realize that you do, in fact, negotiate all the time both on your job and in your personal life.
~ Herb Cohen
Power. The other side always seems to have more power and authority than you think you have.
~ Herb Cohen
Your ability to negotiate determines whether you can or can't influence your environment. It gives you a sense of mastery over your life.
~ Herb Cohen
It's analyzing information, time, and power to affect behavior … the meeting of needs (yours and others') to make things happen the way you want them to.
~ Herb Cohen
2. Almost everything is negotiable
~ Herb Cohen
He says, "Good … I'll write up the sales slip." You interject, "No … wait—maybe we can talk." He arches an eyebrow and says, "When you and your wife finish discussing this, you'll find me in Hardware," and strolls away.
~ Herb Cohen
Now I ask you, will this be an easy or a difficult negotiation? Most people in our culture would say difficult. Why? Because of the great imbalance in information, apparent time pressure, and perceived power.
~ Herb Cohen
There are many people with technical expertise who lack the negotiating skill needed to sell their ideas. As a result they feel frustrated.
~ Herb Cohen
Almost anything you and your spouse say furthers the informational imbalance and strengthens the salesman's hand.
~ Herb Cohen
Note that the salesman never responds directly to any question that might give you information.
~ Herb Cohen
we should never look on history as a period of peace peppered by outbreaks of war, but rather as a period of war peppered by outbreaks of peace.
~ Herbie Brennan
In 1957, which is now 57 years ago, my grandfather and then-Prime Minister Nobusuke Kishi welcomed Prime Minister Menzies as the first Australian Prime Minister to visit Japan after World War II and drove the conclusion of the Japan-Australia Agreement on Commerce.
~ Shinzo Abe
We've had years and years and years of compromises, and that's led to $14 trillion in debt.
~ Tom Graves
You got to have the right lawyer and good management. I went years and years without management and even a good lawyer; I used to handle contracts on my own, and it was definitely corners that they would cut. It wouldn't have happened if I had a good lawyer behind me.
~ Statik Selektah
I'm a screamer and a yeller. When I want something, all I do is yell, and I get responses.
~ Alex Spanos
Keep in mind, when two enemies are talking, they're not fighting, they're talking. They might be yelling and screaming, but at least they're talking. It's when the talking ceases that the ground becomes fertile for violence.
~ Daryl Davis
Who have I picked fights with over the years? Bill Gates. Google. Mark Zuckerberg. Even - despite everything that's written about my relationship with Steve Jobs - we had yelling matches.
~ Walt Mossberg
By the way, if you do your job on behalf of your country, you have meetings where you put your position forward strongly, and the other side does the same thing. And I've had plenty of meetings in my career that really were heated, people yelling at each other.
~ Richard Holbrooke
If yelling and threatening, intimidating and chanting solved problems, Illinois wouldn't have any problems. We're good at that stuff.
~ Bruce Rauner
There I was - 20 years old, living in Ireland, and I'd never heard the word 'venture capitalist.' But I'd said that I wanted a job that involved a lot of negotiation, a lot of yelling at people on the phone, and for it to be high-risk, high-reward.
~ Chris Sacca