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Quotes About Acceptance

maturity consisted in accepting the turn that existence had taken without getting too upset
~ Elena Ferrante
Today I feel some uneasiness in recalling how much I suffered, I have no sympathy for myself of that time.
~ Elena Ferrante
Had it really been so wonderful? I knew very well that at that time, too, there had been shame. And uneasiness, and humiliation, and disgust: accept, submit, force yourself. Is it possible that even happy moments of pleasure never stand up to a rigorous examination? Possible.
~ Elena Ferrante
I said to myself every day: I am what I am and I have to accept myself; I was born like this, in this city, with this dialect, without money; I will give what I can give, I will take what I can take, I will endure what has to be endured.
~ Elena Ferrante
I feel ugly, like I'm a bad person, and yet I'd like to be loved.
~ Elena Ferrante
in his view love ended only when it was possible to return to oneself without fear or disgust
~ Elena Ferrante
That connection between anxiety and ugliness unexpectedly consoled me. You can turn ugly because of worries—
~ Elena Ferrante
the dead are objects that have broken, a television, the radio, the mixer, and the best thing is to remember them as they were when they were working, because the only acceptable tomb is memory.
~ Elena Ferrante
My breasts are small," I said in a whisper, but immediately despised myself because it sounded as if I were making excuses, excuse me if I can't offer you big tits, I hope you enjoy yourself anyway, idiot that I was, if he liked little tits, good; if not, the worse for him, it was all free, a stroke of luck had fallen to this shit, the best birthday present he could hope for, at his age.
~ Elena Ferrante
it was a good rule not to expect the ideal but to enjoy what is possible.
~ Elena Ferrante
Nelle favole si fa come si vuole e nella realtà si fa come si può.
~ Elena Ferrante
The reasonableness of others and my own desire for tranquility got on my nerves. The breath built up in my throat, ready to vibrate with words of rage. I felt the need to quarrel, and in fact I quarreled first with our male friends, then with their wives or girlfriends, and finally I went on to clash with anyone, male or female, who tried to help me accept what was happening to my life.
~ Elena Ferrante
I, too, would find out that old age is a brute, ferocious beast.
~ Elena Ferrante
talvez, diante do abandono, sejamos todos iguais; talvez nem mesmo uma cabeça muito disciplinada consiga suportar a descoberta de não ser amada.
~ Elena Ferrante
de pequeña sabía que nos moríamos, siempre lo he sabido, pero nunca pensé que fuera a pasarme a mí, y ahora tampoco termino de creérmelo.
~ Elena Ferrante
Lina es valiente, incluso demasiado. Pero no sabe adaptarse a la realidad, es incapaz de aceptar a los demás y aceptarse a sí misma
~ Elena Ferrante
La madurez consistía en aceptar el curso que había tomado la existencia sin agitarse demasiado, trazar un surco entre la práctica cotidiana y el aprendizaje teórico, aprender a verse, a conocerse a la espera de los grandes cambios
~ Elena Ferrante
Mi dicevo che la maturità consisteva nell'accettare la piega che aveva preso l'esistenza senza agitarsi troppo, tracciare un solco tra prassi quotidiana e acquisizioni teoriche, imparare a vedersi, a conoscersi in attesa di grandi cambiamenti. Giorno
~ Elena Ferrante
If she wants Marcello Solara, I will resign myself. I love her so much that if she's happy with someone else I will withdraw and between us everything will remain as it is now. But if she wants me--if she wants me--there's no help for it, you must give her to me.
~ Elena Ferrante
Forse, di fronte all'abbandono, siamo tutti uguali; forse nemmeno una testa molto ordinata può reggere alla scoperta di non essere amata.
~ Elena Ferrante
el amor terminaba solo cuando era posible regresar sin temor o disgusto a sí mismos
~ Elena Ferrante
said to myself that maturity consisted in accepting the turn that existence had taken without getting too upset, following
~ Elena Ferrante
Ölülerin, televizyon, radyo, mikser gibi bozulmuÅŸ nesneler gibi olduklar?n? ve en iyisinin onlar?n iÅŸler halini hat?rlamak olduÄŸunu, kabul edilebilir tek mezarl???n an?lar olduÄŸunu anlatt???n? aktard?m.
~ Elena Ferrante
İnsan çirkin, kötü, aptal da olsa, önemli olan aÅŸk denen duyguyu yaratabilmesiydi.
~ Elena Ferrante