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Quotes About Relationships

Epicurus observed that: Of all the things that wisdom provides to help one live one's entire life in happiness, the greatest by far is the possession of friendship.
~ Alain de Botton
Când doi oameni sunt meniÈ›i s? tr?iasc? împreun?, exist? - pur È™i simplu - în cele din urm? - un sentiment în?l??tor È™i reciproc, în temeiul c?ruia ambele p?rÈ›i v?d lumea exact la fel.
~ Alain de Botton
N-o s? reuÈ™esc niciodat? s? fac sau s? fiu tot ce vrei - È™i nici invers -, dar mi-ar pl?cea s? cred c? putem fi tipul de oameni care îÈ™i spun unii altora cine sunt de fapt. Alternativa înseamna t?cere È™i minciun?, care sunt adev?raÈ›ii duÈ™mani ai iubirii.
~ Alain de Botton
When two people part it is the one who is not in love who makes the tender speeches.
~ Alain de Botton
Nici el, nici ea nu trebuie s? fie perfecÈ›i, e nevoie doar s?-È™i dea din când în când câte-un semn care s? arate c? È™tiu c? e greu de tr?it cu ei.
~ Alain de Botton
Agora ele sabe que as ideias românticas são uma receita de desastre. Sua aptidão para o casamento baseia-se em critérios bem diferentes. Ele está apto para o casamento porque — para começar a lista — desistiu da perfeição.
~ Alain de Botton
ReacÈ›ia celorlalÈ›i la purtarea noastr? este comparabil? cu o oglind? pentru c? ne întoarce o imagine a noastr? pe care singuri nu suntem în stare s? o vedem. De asta ceilalÈ›i sunt indispensabili, ca s? ne dea ceva ce nu putem înÈ›elege singuri, imaginea propriului caracter. Cine sunt eu f?r? ca ceilalÈ›i s? îmi dea un indiciu?
~ Alain de Botton
There is no doubt that a person's charms are less frequently a cause of love than a remark such as: "No, this evening I shan't be free.
~ Alain de Botton
Compatibility is an achievement of love, it shouldn't be the precondition of love.
~ Alain de Botton
Rabih feels ready for marriage because he has despaired of being fully understood.
~ Alain de Botton
Those among us who chose to stay single should not be thought un-Romantic. Indeed, we may be among the very most Romantic of all, which is precisely why we find the possibilities open to us especially unappetising. It's in the end the fervent Romantics who should be especially careful of ending up in mediocre relationships: relationships best suit the kind of people who don't expect too much from them.
~ Alain de Botton
Though it is a sign of some maturity to know how to love and live alongside someone, it may be a sign of even greater maturity to recognise that this is something one isn't in the end psychologically really capable of – as a good portion of us simply aren't. Retiring oneself voluntarily, in order to save others (and oneself) from the consequences of one's inner emotional turmoil may be the true sign of a great and kindly soul.
~ Alain de Botton
Ebeveynlerin sevgisi ve anlay??? yeterli olsa, insan olduÄŸu yerde sayar ve zamanla soyu tükenirdi. Türün hayatta kalmas?, çocuklar?n nihayetinde bundan b?kmas?na dayan?r. Daha tatmin edici sevgi ve heyecan kaynaklar? bulma umuduyla dünyaya at?lmalar?na baÄŸl?d?r.
~ Alain de Botton
Those who love and those who are happy are not the same.
~ Alain de Botton
He feeds her his worlds.
~ Alain de Botton
It is of course the height of absurdity to blame them. But this is to misunderstand the rules under which love operates. It is because we cannot scream at the forces who are really responsible that we get angry with those we are sure will best tolerate us for blaming them. We take it out on the very nicest, most sympathetic, most loyal people in the vicinity, the ones least likely to have harmed us, but the ones most likely to stick around while we pitilessly rant at them.
~ Alain de Botton
É impossível continuar a fazer amor se a carpete for sempre a mesma.
~ Alain de Botton
Marriage: a deeply peculiar and ultimately unkind thing to inflict on anyone one claims to care for.
~ Alain de Botton
The only people who can still strike us as normal are those we don't yet know very well. The best cure for love is to get to know them better.
~ Alain de Botton
A woman whom we need and who makes us suffer elicits from us a whole gamut of feelings far more profound and more vital than does a man of genius who interests us.
~ Alain de Botton
We usually believe gossip about ourselves to have been inspired by a level of malice far greater (or more critical) than the malice we ourselves felt in relation to the last person we gossiped about, a person whose habits we could mock without this in any way altering our affection for them.
~ Alain de Botton
Proust was not well place to enjoy honest friendships. For a start, he had far too many true but unkind thoughts about people.
~ Alain de Botton
What we complain of in others, others will complain of in us.
~ Alain de Botton
being jilted by a lover is a perfect introduction to the mechanisms of emotional dependency.
~ Alain de Botton