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Quotes About Relationships

Dragostea pare delimitat? de dou? disolu?ii - via?a sub prea multe priviri ?i via?a sub prea pu?ine.
~ Alain de Botton
Love is a trap and only reveals itself to us by making us suffer.
~ Alain de Botton
disliking people rarely being a sufficient reason for not wanting them to like us).
~ Alain de Botton
Pronouncing a lover "perfect" can only be a sign that we have failed to understand them. We can claim to have begun to know someone only when they have substantially disappointed us.
~ Alain de Botton
Compatibility is an achievement of love; it shouldn't be its precondition.
~ Alain de Botton
How are we affected by an absence of love? Why should being ignored drive us to a rage and impotent despair beside which torture itself would be a relief?- The Importance of Love
~ Alain de Botton
It may be a sign that two people have stopped loving one another (or at least stopped wishing to make the effort that constitutes ninety per cent of love) when they are no longer able to spin differences into jokes. Humour lined the walls of irritation between our ideals and the reality: behind every joke, there was a warning of difference, of disappointment even, but it was a difference that had been defused - and could therefore be passed over without the need for a pogrom.
~ Alain de Botton
What use was it to live if it was without love and without being heard? What was freedom if it meant the freedom to be abandoned?
~ Alain de Botton
when it comes to domestic existence, we tend to make a fateful presumption of ease, which in turn inspires in us a tense aversion to protracted negotiation.
~ Alain de Botton
The terms avoidant and anxious are hardly typical in a love story, but if Romantic is taken to mean "helpful to the progress of love," then they turn out to be among the most romantic words Kirsten and Rabih will ever stumble upon, for they enable them to grasp patterns that have been destructively at work between them every day of their married lives.
~ Alain de Botton
One of love's greatest drawbacks is that, for a while at least, it is in danger of making us seriously happy. 2.     Chloe
~ Alain de Botton
He will surmise that love can endure only when one is unfaithful to its beguiling opening ambitions, and that, for his relationships to work, he will need to give up on the feelings that got him into them in the first place. He will need to learn that love is a skill rather than an enthusiasm.
~ Alain de Botton
Of course, there would be few great human achievements if we accepted all frustrations. The motor of our ingenuity is the question 'Does it have to be like this?', from which arise political reforms, scientific developments, improved relationships, better books.
~ Alain de Botton
He's not secretive, controlling, or withdrawn for malicious reasons; he just gives up on other people—and on his ability to persuade them of anything—with unhelpful ease.
~ Alain de Botton
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. Good-looking people marry good-looking people and the others take what's left.
~ Alan Bennett
Geoffrey's bad enough but I'm glad I wasn't married to Jesus.
~ Alan Bennett
Love does not require you to make believe you are something you are not.
~ Alan Cohen
What was, was. What is, is. Be true to what is, rather than clinging to an old form. Then you will create new meaningful relationships that match who you are and what you want.
~ Alan Cohen
Why live in a soap opera when you can star in a great love story?
~ Alan Cohen
If you can't be with the one you love, be the one you love.
~ Alan Cohen
every act is either an expression of love or a call for love.
~ Alan Cohen
El amor no mata para salvar.
~ Alan Cohen
There are seven reasons people go to work: (1) Money; (2) Passionate self-expression; (3) Rewarding relationships; (4) Service to improve others' lives; (5) Egoic achievement, competitive victory, or status; (6) Fear, guilt, obligation, rote habit, or debt to tradition; and (7) Avoidance of boredom or escape from a more unpleasant situation. We might boil this list down to two basic motivations: fear-based lack and joy-based expression.
~ Alan Cohen
Activities are valuable only if they bring us closer to peace. Relationships are healthy only as much as they reflect real love.
~ Alan Cohen