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Quotes About Expectations

I had seen the princess and let her lie there unawakened, because the happily ever after was so damnably much work.
~ Orson Scott Card
You don't know how to love people. You only know how to own them. And because people will never act just like you want them to, Mother, you'll always feel betrayed. And because eventually everybody dies, you'll always feel cheated. But you're the cheat, Mother. You're the one who uses our love for us to try to control us.
~ Orson Scott Card
Child-rearing today was so complicated. You always had to think of what they'd say on television later.
~ Orson Scott Card
In Valentine's experience, normality was always a pretense, people acting out what they thought were their expected roles
~ Orson Scott Card
No, the hurts of the mind were too strange, too invisible, too magical to hope for the same kind of tolerance and help from even the best of people. It frightens me, thought DeAnne. Why should I expect others to be better than I am?
~ Orson Scott Card
Mother, I don't dream of marrying a prince and riding off into the sunset. That's a good thing, my darling, because there are no princes - only men and animals who pretend to be men.
~ Orson Scott Card
Vanya soon found that America might be an exciting place to arrive, but living there could become, in time, as boring as anything else.
~ Orson Scott Card
Il eut un surprenant sourire, puis il me prit dans ses bras et me dit : « Je ne pensais que tu m'avais trahi la dernière fois que tu as parti. Je ne comprenais pas, Lanik. Je pensais que si je te faisais confiance, cela signifie que tu agirais toujours comme je le voulais. ..
~ Orson Scott Card
it would probably be a good deal better than their worst fears and nowhere near as good as their best hopes.
~ Orson Scott Card
The story is nothing like what you first thought it would be. But so what? It's better - richer, deeper, truer - than the original idea. The idea did its work: it got you thinking. After that, if you feel bound to stick to it no matter what, that idea becomes a ball and chain that you drag with you through the whole process.
~ Orson Scott Card
Nobody would notice you, except to feel sorry for the little kid. But I made sure they all noticed you today. They'll be watching every move you make. All you have to do to earn their respect now is be perfect.
~ Orson Scott Card
She paid using the prettiest credit card, and then left it with the ticket seller as a gift. Along with a minor curse—a bladder infection and diarrhea—just because she was Baba Yaga, and certain things were expected.
~ Orson Scott Card
All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does, and that is his.
~ Oscar Wilde
How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being
~ Oscar Wilde
Women have a much better time than men in this world; there are far more things forbidden to them.
~ Oscar Wilde
A man can be happy with any woman as long as he does not love her.
~ Oscar Wilde
When a woman marries again, it is because she detested her first husband. When a man marries again, it is because he adored his first wife. Women try their luck; men risk theirs.
~ Oscar Wilde
As long as a woman can look ten years younger than her daughter, she is perfectly satisfied
~ Oscar Wilde
If you don't get everything you want, think of the things you don't get that you don't want.
~ Oscar Wilde
Ideals are dangerous things. Realities are better. They wound, but they're better.
~ Oscar Wilde
Nothing spoils romance so much as a sense of humor in the woman
~ Oscar Wilde
The proper basis for marriage is a mutual misunderstanding.
~ Oscar Wilde
Lady Bracknell. Good afternoon, dear Algernon, I hope you are behaving very well. Algernon. I'm feeling very well, Aunt Augusta. Lady Bracknell. That's not quite the same thing. In fact the two things rarely go together.
~ Oscar Wilde
You can hardly imagine that I and Lord Bracknell would dream of allowing our only daughter - a girl brought up with the utmost care - to marry into a cloak-room, and form an alliance with a parcel?
~ Oscar Wilde