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Quotes About Expectations

Abruptly, she settled down against his shoulder with a little wriggling motion. "I'm getting my wires crossed," she admitted. "In order to get anywhere in this world, a woman is supposed to be feminine and leave the thinking to the males. They like it better that way.
~ Erle Stanley Gardner
One thing they never tell you about child raising is that for the rest of your life, at the drop of a hat, you are expected to know your child's name and how old he or she is.
~ Erma Bombeck
Families aren't easy to join. They're like an exclusive country club where membership makes impossible demands and the dues for an outsider are exorbitant.
~ Erma Bombeck
I've always felt there are two things a woman should never do after the age of thirty-five: stand in natural light and have a baby...
~ Erma Bombeck
I loved you enough to accept you for what you are, not what I wanted you to be.
~ Erma Bombeck
children are trained to want to do as the society says they have to do.
~ Ernest Becker
When the average person…cannot hide his failure to be his own hero, then he bogs down in the failure of depression and terrible guilt.
~ Ernest Becker
He had loved too much, demanded too much, and he wore it all out.
~ Ernest Hemingway
There is not much future in men being friends with a great woman although it can be pleasant enough before it gets better or worse, and there is usually even less future with truly ambitious women writers.
~ Ernest Hemingway
There is not much future in men being friends with great women although it can be pleasant enough before it gets better or worse, and there is usually even less future with truly ambitious women writers.
~ Ernest Hemingway
People who interfered in your life always did it for your own good and I figured it out finally that what they wanted was for you to conform completely and never differ from some accepted surface standard and then dissipate the way traveling salesmen would at a convention in every stupid and boreing way there was.
~ Ernest Hemingway
People who interfered with your life always did it for your own good and I figured it out finally that what they wanted was for you to conform completely and never differ from some accepted standard and then dissipate the way traveling salesmen would at a convention in every stupid and boring way there was.
~ Ernest Hemingway
Women made such swell friends. Awfully swell. In the first place, you had to be in love with a woman to have a basis of friendship. I had been having Brett for a friend. I had not been thinking about her side of it. I had been getting something for nothing. That only delayed the presentation of the bill. The bill always came. That was one of the swell things you could count on.
~ Ernest Hemingway
People who interfered in your life always did it for your own good and I figured it out finally that what they wanted was for your to conform completely and never differ from some accepted surface standard and then dissipate the way traveling salesmen would at a convention in every stupid and boreing way there was.
~ Ernest Hemingway
I gave Brett what for, you know. I said if she would go about with Jews and bull-fighters and such people, she must expect trouble.
~ Ernest Hemingway
No horse named Morbid ever won a race.
~ Ernest Hemmingway
É repreensível para um rapaz de 15 anos fingir ter 18 para poder conduzir um carro ou beber num bar; mas frequentemente o contexto social torna um dever para a mulher fazer-se passar por mais nova ou fisicamente mais sedutora do que na realidade é.
~ Erving Goffman
In my work, I see couples who no longer wait for an invitation into their partner's interiority, but instead demand admittance, as if they are entitled to unrestricted access into the private thoughts of their loved ones
~ Esther Perel
Once we strayed because marriage was not supposed to deliver love and passion. Today we stray because marriage fails to deliver the love, passion, and undivided attention it promised.
~ Esther Perel
Until now monogamy has been the default setting, and it sits on the premise (however unrealistic) that if you truly love, you should no longer be attracted to others.
~ Esther Perel
No woman should give any man the power to shatter her romantic ideals.
~ Esther Perel
Once divorce carried all the stigma. Now, choosing to stay when you can leave is the new shame.
~ Esther Perel
Almost everywhere people marry, monogamy is the official norm and infidelity the clandestine one.
~ Esther Perel
We blame our partners for failing to make us whole.
~ Esther Perel