Quotes from Gary Chapman

True unconditional love will never spoil a child because it is impossible for parents to give too much of it.

If only you would listen to his voice today! The Lord says, "Don't harden your hearts as Israel did at Meribah, as they did at Massah in the wilderness." —Psalm 95:7–8

You cannot force someone to accept an expression of love. You can only offer it. If it is not accepted, you must respect the other person's decision.

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. —Romans 5:3

For every minute you are angry you lose sixty seconds of happiness. RALPH WALDO EMERSON

Share each other's burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ. —Galatians 6:2

God shows love in many ways, especially through the encouragement of other Christians. — Richard Holland —

And I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns. —Philippians 1:6

You, Lord, hear the desire of the afflicted; you encourage them, and you listen to their cry. —Psalm 10:17

Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone. —Romans 12:18

Love accepts opportunities to help those whose spirits are crushed.

Confidence in God's perfect love for our loved ones frees us to release them into His capable hands. — Michele Cushatt

a request creates the possibility for an expression of love, whereas a demand suffocates that possibility.

1) consciously acknowledge to yourself that you are angry; (2) restrain your immediate response; (3) locate the focus of your anger; (4) analyze your options; and (5) take constructive action. As we complete each step, we move toward making our anger productive.

Discovering the primary love language of your spouse is essential if you are to keep his/her emotional love tank full. But first, let's make sure you know your own love language [...] Words of Affirmation; Quality Time; Receiving Gifts; Acts of Service; Physical Touch.

I pray for you constantly, asking God, the glorious Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, to give you spiritual wisdom. —Ephesians 1:16–17

Better to be patient than powerful; better to have self-control than to conquer a city. —Proverbs 16:32

If your child is using some of the negative behavioral responses to anger, such as pushing, shoving, and throwing objects, focus on the anger first and the behavior second. You might say, "It's obvious that you are very angry. I would like to hear what's bothering you, but we can't talk while you are _________. Would you like for us to take a walk and talk about it?

Next time the tears roll, remember who cares enough to weep with us. — Ila Reed

Don't just pretend to love others. Really love them. —Romans 12:9

When I see Him, I want to hear, "You were willing and obedient. You have a soft heart." — Susan J. Reinhardt —

Let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy. EPHESIANS 4:23-24

How can a young person stay pure? By obeying your word. —Psalm 119:9

For ever since the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky. Through everything God made, they can clearly see his invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse for not knowing God. —Romans 1:20