Quotes About Validation

I don't want the success to go away. I don't want it to seem unearned.

It isn't much of a book of quotations if I am not in it.

The real moment of success is not the moment apparent to the crowd.

I would say that in the past year I have had to begrudgingly admit that I am finally a success of some level, sure.

I had very, very bad self-esteem - that I was a fake, everybody was going to find out, that I didn't deserve to have success, just about my looks and really, really bad self-esteem.

We tell them how good they are and they light up, eager to please, and try to please us some more. These are the children we should really worry about.

Other people's judgments were meaningless unless you allowed them to mean something.

You are only worthy of what you prove yourself to be.

To hell with them," Fanny remarked. Had her sister learned nothing at the Starling School? Other people's judgments were meaningless unless you allowed them to mean something.

The grandiose person is never really free; first, because he is excessively dependent on admiration from others, and second, because his self-respect

The grandiose person is never really free; first, because he is excessively dependent on admiration from others, and second, because his self-respect is dependent on qualities, functions, and achievements that can suddenly fail.

people who were never respected as children and thus do their utmost to earn that respect at a later stage with the assistance of the gigantic power apparatus they have built up around them.

There were people whom you positively ached to please. If you failed with such people they would put you into a category in their minds where they could kee you and have contempt for you forever.

no person is your friend (or kin) who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow and be perceived as fully blossomed as you were intended. Or who belittles in any fashion the gifts you labor so to bring into the world.

All womens not alike, Tobias, she say. Believe it or not. Oh, I believe it, he say. Just can't prove it to the world.

There's something in all of us that wants a medal for what we have done. That wants to be appreciated.

Há qualquer faceta em todos nós que deseja uma medalha por aquilo que temos feito. Essa faceta deseja ser apreciada.

Why any woman give a sh*t what people think is a mystery to me.

He try to give her a compliment, she pass it on to me. After while I git to feeling pretty cute.

My psychoanalyst thinks I'm perfectly right.

CONSULT, v.i. To seek another's disapproval of a course already decided on.

DISCUSSION, n. A method of confirming others in their errors.

Consultar, v.l. Requerir la aprobación de otro para tomar una actitud ya resuelta.

Your problem is in caring what they call you.