Quotes About Validation

PARA UNA PERSONA PROMEDIO, SER ESCUCHADO SE ACERCA MUCHO A SER AMADO, CASI NO ES POSIBLE DISTINGUIR UNA COSA DE LA OTRA». —DAVID AUGSBURGER

DO SOMETHING TODAY TO CREATE AN ENVIRONMENT OF AFFIRMATION.

It's been said that when one of Wooden's players asked, "Coach, what happens if I point to the player who gave me the assist and he isn't watching?" Coach Wooden replied, "He will always be watching." People desire validation and encouragement. It's human nature.

One of the quickest ways to gain credibility with an individual, a group, or an audience is to borrow it from someone who already has credibility with them.

Being heard is so close to being loved, that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable.

Perfectionists can rarely affirm themselves; therefore, it's very difficult for them to affirm others.

Encouragement is oxygen to the soul. Good work can never be expected from a worker without encouragement. No one can ever have lived without it.

William James said, "The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated.

1 Build people up by encouragement. #2 Give people credit by acknowledgment. #3 Give people recognition by gratitude.

If you worry about what other people think of you, it's because you have more confidence in their opinion than you have in your own.

Los líderes posicionales buscan seguridad basándose en los títulos más que en el talento

The problem was that I carried around with me a tendency to feel that other people's respect for me would vanish if what I did was second rate. And while I accept that this "perfectionism" is likely to stimulate the production of better work, it doesn't, unfortunately, go hand in hand with a relaxed and happy attitude to life.

The trouble is that most people want to be right. The very best people, however, want to know if they're right

It's hard growing up in a world where you never feel like you're good enough.

Do not take your ex boyfriend's bad opinion of you as the truth. Nothing he thinks or says about you is about you, but rather a reflection of his own reality.

There's no point in caring what others think about you. Either way they will form a good or bad opinion of you.

Its kind of an interesting thought when your boyfriend doesnt tell you that you look pretty but your guy friends never forget to.

I got off on the fact that a guy would be so into me from the get-go without really knowing me. That's probably why I had so many bad relationships.

She looks for someone to fill her empty heart. She looks for someone to call her beautiful. She looks for someone who tells her he loves her, and actually means it. She's just looking for her dad.

People spend too much time trying to prove themselves to the wrong person. If they're acting like you're not good enough they're wrong or you.

Rejection doesn't mean you aren't good enough; it means the other person failed to notice what you HAVE TO OFFER.

Sometimes no matter how hard you try to be enough for someone, if that someone doesn't feel contented having you, then they will still make you feel WORTHLESS.

When you are used to being unappreciated, you don't know how to act when somebody actually starts to appreciate you...its like 'is this real?'

Sometimes being nice is overrated and it makes you feel unappreciated.