Quotes About Validation

In every aspect of our lives, we are always asking ourselves, How am I of value? What is my worth? Yet I believe that worthiness is our birthright.

Principles are proven through performance.

For example, a good deal of what appears as generous philanthropy is really the fruit of prideful self-love disguised as generosity and reaching out for the validation of public approval and social esteem—and in the process creating enormous social benefits.12 It "gives to get" as a matter of an unspoken contract, rather than "giving because given to," which is the expression of true charity.

The age of the Internet, it is said, is the age of the self and the selfie. The world is full of people full of themselves. In such an age, "I post, therefore I am.

No matter how often I tried, she never once complimented me.

I think that in life you must have a final person who praises you.

Gerçekli?in onay? güvenden gelir ve güven ki?inin kalbindeki sevgiden kaynaklan?r.

Everyone loves you. You're just asking for too much.

Do you love me because I'm beautiful, or am I am beautiful because you love me?

There are men who are willing to marry a woman they do not care about merely because she is admired by other men. Such a relation exists between many men and their thoughts.

its entire purpose is to enable me to feel good about myself.

Dr. Franklin says "it is the eyes of others and not our own eyes which ruin us. If all the world were blind except myself I should not care for fine clothes or furniture.

it is the eyes of others and not our own eyes which ruin us. If all the world were blind except myself I should not care for fine clothes or furniture.

The seminal journey of the forties is from "everyone hates me" to "they don't really care.

Yes. That's exactly right.

Every bit of you is worthy of your loving.

And on top of everything, Mairelon hadn't even said she looked nice.

I'm sorry. I'm used to people objecting to things because they think I can't do them or shouldn't do them. It didn't occur to me that you might have a real reason.

The abuser's worth is derived from a sense of one-upmanship and winning over. If the partner accomplishes something, the abuser views her accomplishment

You're too sensitive.

Be there with your partner's feelings. Don't ignore them, try to "fix it," or try to talk about it or drag him or her out of it.

This is an important point about parenting, too. You're not going to help your sons and daughters by telling them that they shouldn't feel the way they do. You'll help them by being in the emotion with them for a few moments while they work their own way out of it.

You do not need outside approval. You came into this life pre-approved!

Very few people want to know the truth. They wish to be confirmed in their own opinions, which is a very different thing—very different indeed.