Quotes from John Gray

Get the love you deserve and gave your partner the love and support he deserves

To love someone is to acknowledge the goodness of who they are. Through loving a person we awaken their awareness of their own innate goodness. It is as though they cannot know how worthy they are until they look into the mirror of our love and see themselves.

Men need to remember that women talk about problems to get close and not necessarily to get solutions.

We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways—the ways we react and behave when we love someone.

Mental chemistry creates interest, Emotional chemistry Generates Affection, Physical chemistry generates desire, and Spiritual chemistry creates love. A soulmate includes all four...and I will not settle for anything less!

When negative feelings are suppressed positive feelings become suppressed as well, and love dies.

Wanita senang hatinya bila mempunyai teman yang dapat berbagi kesulitannya. Lelaki senang hatinya bila dapat memecahkan kesulitannya sendirian di guanya.

Remember, if a man needs to pull away like a rubber band, when he returns he will be back with a lot more love. Then he can listen. This is the best time to initiate conversation.

That love motivates you to cooperate, respect, appreciate, cherish, and admire that person.

A woman should not be judged for needing this reassurance, just as a man should not be judged for needing to withdraw.

Fortunately perfection is not a requirement for creating great relationships.

Just as women are afraid of receiving, men are afraid of giving.

Get the love you deserve and gave your partner the love and support he deserves

I would love you all the day, every night we would kiss and play, if with me you'd fondly stray, over the hills and far away.

The process of learning requires not only hearing and applying but also forgetting and then remembering again.

That love motivates you to cooperate, respect, appreciate, cherish, and admire that person.

Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.

when man and women are able to respect and accept there differences the love has a chance to blossom

To offer a man unsolicited advice is to presume that he doesn't know what to do or that he can't do it on his own.

Generally speaking, when a woman offers unsolicited advice or tries to help a man, she has no idea of how critical and unloving he may sound to him.

A man's deepest fear is that he is not good enough or that he is incompetent. He compensates for this fear by focusing on increasing his power and competence. Success, achievement, and efficiency are foremost in his life ... A man appears most uncaring when he is afraid.

Men need to remember that when women seem upset and talk about problems is not the time to offer solutions; instead she needs to be heard, and gradually she will feel better on her own.

Venusians have different values. They value love, communication, beauty, and relationships. They spend a lot of time supporting, helping, and nurturing one another. Their sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships. They experience fulfillment through sharing and relating.

Life is filled with rhythms-day and night, hot and cold, summer and winter, spring and fall, cloudy and clear. Likewise in a relationship, men and women have their own rhythms and cycles.