Quotes About Validation

You were seen, you were heard and you matter.

So long as you're still worried about what others think of you, you are owned by them. Only when you require no approval from outside yourself can you own yourself." It's true that when you summon the

So long as you're still worried about what others think of you, you are owned by them. Only when you require no approval from outside yourself can you own yourself.

As long as other people's opinions matter more than your own, you're owned by them. You're not even free.

The truth is that the naysayers in your life can never be fully satisfied. Whether you hide or shine, they'll always feel threatened because they don't believe they are enough.

Der Schriftsteller Neale Donald Walsch schreibt: Solange du dir darüber Sorgen machst, was andere von dir denken, gehörst du ihnen. Nur wenn du keine Zustimmung von außen brauchst, kannst Dur dir selbst gehören.

Enquanto estiver preocupado com o que os outros pensam ao seu respeito, você pertence a eles. Só quando deixa de buscar a aprovação externa você torna dono de si mesmo.

Beginning when we are girls, most of us are taught to deflect praise. We apologize for our accomplishments. We try to level the field with our family and friends by downplaying our brilliance. We settle for the passenger's seat when we long to drive. That's why so many of us have been willing to hide our light as adults. Instead of being filled with all the passion and purpose that enable us to offer our best to the world, we empty ourselves in an effort to silence our critics.

Sou uma perfeccionista desde os 3 anos. Durante muito tempo, tive a necessidade de mostrar que eu merecia estar aqui – de provar o meu valor. Trabalhei duro. Tirei muitas notas máximas. Venci debates escolares, ganhei bolsas de estudo. Mas precisei chegar aos 30 e poucos anos para saber que o simples fato de ter nascido já me tornava digna de estar aqui. Eu não precisava provar nada a ninguém.

I'm not stupid! In Bean's experience, that was a sentence never uttered except to prove its own inaccuracy.

There is nothing so stupid or dangerous or painful that people won't eagerly do it, if by doing it they will make others believe they are better or stronger or more honorable. I have seen people poison themselves, destroy their children, abandon their mates, cut themselves off from the world, all so that others would think they were a better sort of person.

PLACE YOUR HAND ON THE SCANNER AT THE HEAD OF YOUR BUNK AND SPEAK YOUR NAME TWICE.

Nobody would notice you, except to feel sorry for the little kid. But I made sure they all noticed you today. They'll be watching every move you make. All you have to do to earn their respect now is be perfect.

It's a tragedy that we need to continually prove that we are human beings.

He wanted to hear his own footsteps to prove that he trod the ground.

I am not concerned that I am not known; I seek to be worthy to be known.

Don't grieve when people fail to recognize your ability. Grieve for your lack of ability instead.

I am not worried that nobody knows me. I seek to become fit to be known

Do not worry that your abilities are not appreciated, you should reflect on yourself whether you really have capabilities.

not come to feel his own goodness, worth and lovableness because those significant persons in his life were not present to him with the full attention of their whole being.

To win a war or a revolution does not validate the cause.

You shouldnt worry about what people think of you because they dont do it that often

The Poverty Tour provided the opportunity to meet many people who had been living paycheck to paycheck even before the economic downturn. To so quickly slide from the great middle into the underworld of the poor validated our suspicions that perhaps these citizens never really were bona fide, middle class Americans. Indeed, some economists assert that the middle class evaporated decades ago.

And that's my comfort--that someone else was there and experienced the same thing. How else could I know it was real and not merely a dream?