Quotes from John Gray

Find something that feels good, that resonates with your heart.

Anything that makes you feel good is always going to be drawing in more.

We mistakenly assume that if our partners love us they will react and behave in certain ways - the ways we react and behave when we love someone.

A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.

When a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer.

A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results.

Just as a man is fulfilled through working out the intricate details of solving a problem, a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems.

As precious as knowledge itself is the learning. As precious as any reward is the earning.

Life is filled with rhythms-day and night, hot and cold, summer and winter, spring and fall, cloudy and clear. Likewise in a relationship, men and women have their own rhythms and cycles.

Success lies in doing not what others consider to be great but what you consider to be right.

Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed. Women are motivated and empowered when they feel cherished.

Take time off to give to yourself, in a sense to fill yourself up to fullness, to where now you can overflow in giving.

A women under stress is not immediately concerned with finding solutions to her problems but rather seeks relief by expressing herself and being understood.

All men and women have an equal need for love. When these needs are not fulfilled it is easy to have our feelings hurt, for which we blame our partner.

When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. He makes it safe for her to express herself. The more she is able to express herself, the more she feels heard and understood, and the more she is able to give a man the loving trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement that he needs.

Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.

when men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom

Because she is afraid of not being supported, she unknowingly pushes away the support she needs.

Love brings up our unresolved feelings . One day we are feeling loved , and the next day we are suddenly afraid to trust love . The painful memories of being rejected begin to surface when we are faced with trusting and accepting our partner's love .

we are unique individuals with unique experiences

If we are to feel the positive feelings of love, happiness, trust, and gratitude, we periodically also have to feel anger, sadness, fear, and sorrow.

Not to be needed is a slow death for a man.

If I seek to fulfill my own needs at the expense of my partner, we are sure to experience unhappiness, resentment, and conflict. The secret of forming a successful relationship is for both partners to win.

Men feel cherished when they are needed. Women feel cherished when they are loved. Indonesian version (Bahasa): Kaum pria jadi termotivasi dan bersemangat kala mereka merasa dibutuhkan. Kaum wanita jadi termotivasi dan bersemangat kala mereka merasa dicintai.